Assalamualaikum.
Heeiyoo peeps!
Ryte! ;)
So, today's new topic. Jeng jeng jeng!
Pfft. *over jak!*
Let me tell you what happened this evening. Nak tahu? Tak nak sudah! Bluerk.
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So,
That evening, I made a talk-a-thon with one of muwaa besties.
Woohoo~ 3-hours-straight bebeh! Teehee ;)
Well, without me knowing, I became a DOCTOR!
Pishh-posh. Tipu la kan? How can that be maa?
Well,
There's many type of doctor right?
Then, what kind did you became?
>>>> A LOVE-DOCTOR <<<<
Woot woot~ Terbaikk! Teehee ;)
It started with my friend la. *Mar (bukan nama sebenar)* Ngee ;)
Well, the well-known fact nowadays, dia dah couple.
Wooott woooott.
Eleh, macam tak biasa pulak.
Teehee ;)
Well, a story to be told la eh?
A story to be shared.
*ting!dah dapat green-light pon*
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Once in a blue moon, *ececeh*
Mar called me. Sembang-2. Borak-2.
Normal stuffs. What girls usually do kalau time kebosanan melampau nie kan? Bergayut la!
And, suddenly without me knowing, I asked her.
"Weh, apa cer pakwe kau tu?"
Pffft. Hotstuffs beb!
Jeng jeng jeng.
But but but.
Yang mengejutkan nya adalah. When she said :
" Wawa, ni yang nak cakap nie. How is it eh? Couple nie haram kan? What I should do?"
Tetttt...
I was speechless.
I was dumbfounded.
Sentap.
What am I to say? Apa muwaa nak cakap nie?
So,
As I have some experiences in this. *shhh secret*
I might as well share what I know kan?
[Sampaikanlah daripada-Ku walaupun satu ayat]
So, this is where my job comes in.
Kata nak jadi DAIE. Nah peluang dah jatuh gedebuk. Take it la!
And proove yourself.
Selama ni, what you get in KI, what you get in Islam, share it.
And help your friend here la!
Orait. Enough with the monologue.
Gambattane Wawa-chan! You can do it! Good luck!
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What should I do?
Well, there's so many thing you can do.
There's so many ways you can use.
In your opinion?
How to make it the 'easiest' way?
Well, what I did before.
I started myself with some love-words.
Oit. Bukan ayat-2 jiwang karat gituh.
Tapi love-words from the Almighty.
Muwaa baca surah at-Thoha ayat 1-5.
It's meant untuk melembutkan hati.
So, maybe in many other ways, melembutkan hati si dia kan?
*I also used it bila nak jumpa cikgu nak cakap tak siap keje sekolah. Ngee nakal kan?*
Aksi bawah kawalan. Jangan tiru di rumah! teehee ;)
Then,
Cakap je la terus terang. Alhamdullillah Mar dah dapat hidayah.
Her heart has been opened. Too accept the truth.
Tapi kan. Kitorang kawan je. Takkan tak boleh?
Well, both of you ade 'clash' tak?
Ade. Tapi lepas tu berbaik la balik.
Well, is there ayat-2 "saya-tak-nak-contact-awak-dah-sebab-awak-tipu"?
Yup. Ada. Tapi biasa la tuh. Kawan-2 pun ada cat-fight jugak kan?
Ohh then, in times, ada tak "haritu-saya-nampak-awek-cun-tapi-awak-cun-lagi"?
Hrmm. I think ada kot. Tapi biasa jep. No biggy! Biasa la kawan-acah-kawan kan?
Plus, is there ayat-2 "saya-sayang-awak" atau yang segerombolan dengannnya?
Ahaks. Mesti la ada. Tapi sayang sebagai kawan je la. Saya pun sayang awak jugak kan?
Well well well, if its that way, ini bukan KAWAN dah!
Its MORE THAN A FRIEND.
And without you knowing it kankankan? *sila angguk here* ;)
You think for yourself, "Ohh kitorang kawan je. Mana ada lebih-2"
Helo! Knock-2! Assalamualaikum!
I'm here, sedarlah diri anda, tahap KAWAN tu dah UPGRADE kan?!
If, semua simptom-2 di atas ada dalam list "what-to-do-with-FRIENDS",
Then, you're in GRAVE danger!!
In your mind, you're saying, "Well, its okay. Friends. No more"
But but but.
This is where the DEVIL comes in. Muahaha !
Whispering in your ears. Telling you this and that.
[ MengHALALkan yang HARAM. Plus mengHARAMkan yang HALAL ]
That's their work kan?
So,
Pray to God. Minta dijauhkan segala bahaya.
But. I can't help myself. Saya takut nak lukakan hati dia. Cause I know "dia-sayang-saya"
"Saya sendiri malu nak sebut sayang atau rindu pada seseorang. Bagi saya, ucapan itu, hanya untuk yang BERHAK iaitu pasangan yang dah SAH milik saya. Perasaan itu, lain daripada komunikasi berlainan jantina, hanya untuk buat kerja"
[ Quoted from a book by Hilal Asyraf]
Well, "sayang" itu ikhlas tak? How can you know? Maybe dia just menanam-tebu-di-tepi-bibir kan?
If that's so, kitorang dah janji, nak kahwin sama. Tak kan tu pon tak boleh?
Huhu. Its not I'm saying 'tak-boleh'.
But but but.
Kalau dah tahu nak kahwin, why not terus masuk meminang, and get it done with.
Make it faster. Tak lagi berdosa. Hidup pun happy jak!
Alahh, its too early la pulak now. Nanti-2 la after SPM atau graduate.
Cheesecake betol la!
If thats so, wait je la until after SPM or whatever.
Kenapa nak bercouple sekarang?
Bercouple nanti jak ngak bisa deh?
In Islam, there is no term 'couple-BEFORE-nikah'.
But its sweet, when it goes like 'couple-AFTER-nikah'.
In that time, you can do whatever most you wish.
No more restrictions. Sebab dah sah!
Islam itu indah kankankan?
What if, nanti kalau tunggu nanti, si dia 'dikebas' orang?
Derrr. If thats so, you have to be REDHA with it.
That's TAKDIR by the way.
Maybe in some way, you have a certain destiny.
Maybe bukan dengan si dia, tapi with someone else. Much-2 better! Kan?
Fyi, there are 3 things yang telah termaktub-tak-boleh-ubah di LuhMahfuz.
(rasanya la.kalau silap tolong tegur)
1- Rezeki
2- Death
3- Jodoh
All as well, don't worry la. Put that scrum out of your face.
InsyaAllah. Be the best, and you'll get the best.
[ Jadi lah solehah. Baru cari yang soleh. Ye tak?]
Eleh. You're the one whose talking berdegar-2 nie. Macam la awak baik sangat.
Laa. Kesitu pulak?
I'm just here to advice you, helping you.
Not to say, I'm good, angel-like ke hape.
Kalau nak tunggu somebody perfect to come advice you, memang tunggu muwaa berjanggut la!
So,
Saya ni pun, pernah jugak okeh? Been there, done that.
That's why I know what you're going through. Cause I've been through it too.
But as peeps always say::- "The best teacher in life is experiences. You'll learn from it"
So,
Voila! There you have it. What I experience, I learn from it.
Taking the positive side, and getting rid of the negative side.
Well duhh!
*******
Lastly, she gave up.
She did opened up her mind. And alhamdulillah, she accepted it.
And she did it.
Bravo my friend!
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Being in a situation where you're tikam-2 lidah with your own friend,
Its HARD! Way way way hard.
And believe me, my hands were shaking.
Tak sangka.
I just did it.
Bravo to myself jugak.
Akhirnya, I did what I thought I couldn't.
Kiranya my fear is not a factor anymore eh?
Teehee ;)
Well,
The story above bukan nak 'mengaibkan' sesiapa.
No hard feelings eh?
Tapi, to whom yang terasa bila baca, alhamdulillah.
That would mean you ollz dah dapat HIDAYAH daripada-Nya kan?
But but but.
You guys mesti pelik kan?
Kenapa tetiba this sudden mood-swing nie?
Muwaa yang occasionally 'huha-huha',
Suddenly, becoming 'syadid' bagai kan?
Wakaka ;)
Don't be surprise.
I have many personalities.
And I can change. Secara tiba-2.
No warning sign.
Hebadd?
Ohh tidak! Tak hebadd mana pun.
You'll learn it about me. All along the way.
So,
Peeps,
Keep reading yer!
P/s: Doing the WRONG thing is way, way easy-peasy-lemon-squezy.
While, doing the RIGHT thing is like MEGA_HARD eh?
So,
Thank YOU,
For doing the RIGHT thing!
I'm proud of YOU!
Just.About.Me.
-TD-
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